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Growing up in the deep south, where being gay was not only not common, but unheard of, i struggled with myself constantly. Constantly trying to find my place. Constantly finding myself in deep "admiration" of my closest friends, i was unaware there was such a thing as a lesbian. (sad i know) For me being 'gay' was being wrong, sinful, and a man that loved a man. Growing up in a time when there was no "Will and Grace" to help me figure out that being gay was okay, i struggled constantly to find that support, when there wasn't any. There was no support for me, no one I could talk to or confide in. I was alone in a world that would not accept me. So I hid amongst the crowd, and tried my best to be "normal", what i didn't realize is I CAN DEFINE MY OWN NORMAL. I joined the military at 19 and jumped head first into this crazy place called life. Dealing with not only the struggles within myself, but also the struggles life had to offer. Over coming the harsh reality that being raped can happen to anyone, i pulled myself together and fought through. So many times i sought support, i sought help, but all too often found none. This in itself is the sole purpose of pulling together My Normal Gay Life. Giving that support that i searched for with all my heart oh so many times and couldn't find. Like Jason, I got married at a very young age to try to hide the feelings that were harbored within me, only to have a harder time coming to grips with my truth. I found my way, and now want to help those that are in the same place i was so many times. Even though the foundation of My Normal Gay Life, is giving support to those trying to find their truth, it is much more than that, it is something that can tie people together. Ever just want to meet someone that you can relate to, and not have to scream at each other over loud music and drunkards sitting beside you. I invite everyone to join in on the many upcoming events MNGL plan to host, to pull people together and make being gay just as normal as having blue eyes. So in hopes to implement a more positive view of the LGBT community, we are dedicated to provided support and advice for those in need, offering a fun environment for people of all ages, and creating positive change in our community.
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